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		Okay, what's with the male mentality online anyway?     Must I smack you all upside the head with that clue by four? Not every woman who is online, is here for Cybersex. If one more of you sends me a message asking me what my bra size is, I'll scream! It's obviously larger then your IQ!     I mean really, how presumptuous. To think that just because there is a female online, at whatever time of day or night, that she is trolling for a man, is insulting and juvenile.  Besides, at least work on your pick up lines! My god ... "Hey baby, do you wanna cyber?" is not a turn on and if a female does oblige you because you asked in that fashion, I would suggest you question their gender!     You might want to begin a random conversation with something lighthearted and funny. Work up to talking about hobbies and interests, before you risk being banished to the ignore list.    I remember one evening I was randomizing through ICQ and found a chatter in another country. I'd past by the name a couple of times, before I posted a simple little question, "What time is it?" they posted back the time and something to the effect, "Why, am I late?" The fact that this chatter immediately showed they had a sense of humor and spontaneity, caught my attention. We still chat on occasion, and the humor and spontaneity are still vibrant.   For this old gal, intellect, humor, honesty and a damn fine sense of who you are is what will keep you in my ICQ.    So, if you're looking to cyber, I suggest you take it on down that cyber road and pedal it somewhere else ... cuz this gal will turn you from a rooster to a hen in five easy words! 5/99